allthingsmelanin:

-there’s no such thing a “popping a cherry”

- having a lot of sex doesn’t make you “loose” , nor does it “make your walls disappear”

-you’re not supposed to bleed or experience extreme pain your first time having sex (some women bleed for other reasons but it shouldn’t be due to lack of arrousal and foreplay)

-the idea of virginity is sexist

-having sex the 30th time can be just as special as your first time

-having sex does not make you “less pure”

-There is no medical or biological definition of virginity

- the concept of virginity was created to control female sexuality